How to Plan a Wedding in Six Months
Planning a wedding isn't easy. Planning a wedding to happen in six months or less
is even harder. Here are a few steps that are helpful in planning a fantastic wedding
in six short months or less.
1. Prepare yourself mentally. Get into the right frame of mind. Be prepared
to compromise. Enter into the planning of your wedding with an open mind and flexibility.
You may have it all planned out in your mind but not keeping your ideas flexible will
leave you frustrated and disappointed. Be ready to alter your ideas of what your dream
wedding is. Not only will you need to be flexible with your planning but you need to be
willing to make compromises financially. Don't try to over plan or be too controlling.
Take everything with a grain of salt and a sense of humor.
2. Decide on a budget and stick to it. This is the first step in planning any
wedding but even more important when planning on a short time line. Because of the short
time frame the money you spend won't be spread out over a year or two. You need to look
at what funds you have to spend and be able to live and pay your bills. You may need to
scale down the vision of your wedding. It's very easy to rely on credit but you need to
seriously consider if entering into a marriage with enormous bills is a healthy start
just to have an over the top wedding. No one wants to start a marriage in bankruptcy court.
The number one reason for young marriages failing is financial stress. Keep your eye on the ball.
3. Buy a wedding planner book or make your own. Make sure it has a calendar
and pockets to store brochures and clippings. This helps you organize your ideas and
helps you store contact information all in one place. Write down vendors you have talked
to along with contact information and appointment dates and times. You can also add
swatches of fabric and photos of flowers to show to your florist.
• Start planning as soon as you decide on a date! If you take care of
everything in the beginning, you have more time to enjoy your engagement and more time to
focus on the small, minor details (e.g. the font color of your invitations).
4. Make a time line with a to-do list. The time line will differ depending on
where you live and the bridal market. The time line could change drastically if you were
planning your wedding for January or June. Most of the following steps need to be completed
in the first month to month and a half to get the vendors (florist, photographers, dresses,
etc.) booked or picked in time if you're in an average sized city. When planning something
fast the bulk of the decisions are made in month one. You just spend the other months fine
tuning and hoping the wheels don't come off the wagon.
5. Consider a destination wedding. These are usually the easiest to do on short
notice. All you need to do is show up, get married and have a great time. This may end up
costing you less money in the long run. Weigh your options. Most resorts have everything
in place and can schedule multiple events with no problem on short notice.
• The travel will help filter your guest list and you may find only your best
friends and closest family will attend.
• This often combines the wedding, reception and honeymoon all into one for more savings.
• Flowers and a cake are often included in the cost.
• Some hotels in Las Vegas (US) are able to do lovely and tasteful weddings.
Don't assume every officiant in Las Vegas is an Elvis impersonator.
• Give everyone a heads up if traveling outside the country. It takes time to get
passports. Don't wait for the invitation to go out. Remind everyone that it takes longer
to get their passports and they shouldn't delay. Don't assume everyone knows that passports
aren't quick to turn around.